How to Give Her a Squirting Orgasm: The Complete Guide

Squirting isn’t the measure of success—pleasure, connection, and how she feels are what truly matter. The same components that create great squirting potential—trust, arousal, pressure on the front wall of the vagina—also lead to deeply satisfying orgasms even if no fluid is released. Look, technique is important, but it’s the vibe—the atmosphere, aftercare, and those little surprise touches—that really make her let go. This isn’t just about getting her to squirt; it’s about making her feel safe, desired, and completely in the moment. The higher volume, shoot-the-wall squirting sometimes seen in explicit content is often actually forced urine, as the actors need to produce the effect in dramatic quantities, and on command.

I believe that every woman can learn to squirt assuming she has the necessary physical attributes. That is, a functioning bladder, Skene’s glands, and urethra. Squirting fluid is a combination of urine and fluid from the Skene’s glands which is ejected—often forcefully—from the urethra. Female ejaculation is only fluid from the Skene’s glands and it’s often ejected less forcefully, in a trickle or drip. Oh how to make a women squirt, and by the way, squirting is also different from female ejaculation. I’m here to tell you that while squirting fluids do contain urine, it’s not the same as urination.

If you chose to make her squirt with your finger, be prepared to have a sore arm when you are done. You will need to put vigor into your motion, and it can take a while before she squirts, but it’s doable. It is, however, easier to do while having proper sex. Learn how to squirt when masturbating alone AND during sex in today’s episode. I’ll explain how to squirt, why you may be having trouble squirting and I’ll teach you techniques you or your man can use to have intense squirting orgasms.

Nipple clamps and suction vibrators can offer pleasurable sensations. Female ejaculation can be a much larger amount of fluid that originates from the bladder [14] and mixes with prostate fluid before ejecting from her urethra [15, 16]. Additionally, if you haven’t turned her on enough and had enough foreplay for her Skene’s Gland and G Spot to swell, then making her squirt will be difficult. I call this increasing the Accelerators to her sex drive so that get’s crazy horny for you. It’s kind of like if your girlfriend wants to use a strap-on.

This is actually why “the G Spot is not felt normally during a gynecological exam, because the area must be sexually stimulated in order for it to swell and be palpable” [11]. Your G Spot is inside your vagina, located two to three inches along the front wall of your vagina [9]. The front wall of your vagina is also sometimes called the anterior wall. I’m going to show you how to squirt so intensely (& effortlessly) that you will collapse into deep orgasmic bliss.